In loving memory of our very dear and special friend Manfred . Your zest for life , your kindness, your excellent skill in the kitchen , the love for your family and Pauline the love of your life , are just some of the wonderful thoughts we have of you and we will remember you this way forever . You will be sorely missed and the idea of you never returning to your beloved Cape Town is daunting . Our thoughts and prayers go out to Pauline , Mark, Gavin , Emily , Pai and your wonderful grandchildren . RIP dear friend . You will be forever missed .